You see, he needs something to distract from his iran failure that he needed to distract from him fucking kids, that he needed to distract from hrim demolishing the white house, that je needed to distract from his tarifs wrecking the us economy, that he needed to distract from his racissm, that he needed to distract from the sorry excuse of a human being he is.

yes, they are called video rooms for some reasons, but ofc can be used with webcam turned off too

Element/Matrix and Stoat (formerly Revolt)

Both have discord like communities (albeit elements are a little different), self hostable and are open source