Install tailscale on your vps. Install tailscale on your router. Use tailscale option (on your router) to expose subnet to the tailnet, the subnet being whatever you’re trying to reverse proxy.
Replace tailscale with headscale if you’re paranoid, can run headscale on the vps too if you want to. I had this sort of working, my issue i ran into was manually setting up outbound rules for tailscale traffic in pfsense. Manual because the pfsense tailscale plugin didn’t let you specify a headscale server, it only plays with the official tailacale backplane. Installing tailacale on the pfsense command line works and gets around this and your router will show up on your headscale tailnet, but the outbound rules wont automatically be created… so… twas a rabbit hole I didn’t feeling like exploring at the time.
Install tailscale on your vps. Install tailscale on your router. Use tailscale option (on your router) to expose subnet to the tailnet, the subnet being whatever you’re trying to reverse proxy.
Replace tailscale with headscale if you’re paranoid, can run headscale on the vps too if you want to. I had this sort of working, my issue i ran into was manually setting up outbound rules for tailscale traffic in pfsense. Manual because the pfsense tailscale plugin didn’t let you specify a headscale server, it only plays with the official tailacale backplane. Installing tailacale on the pfsense command line works and gets around this and your router will show up on your headscale tailnet, but the outbound rules wont automatically be created… so… twas a rabbit hole I didn’t feeling like exploring at the time.